RESILIENSI PADA ISTRI YANG SUAMINYA BERPOLIGAMI

NURYULIANA, SHITA (2007) RESILIENSI PADA ISTRI YANG SUAMINYA BERPOLIGAMI. Other thesis, University of Muhammadiyah Malang.

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Abstract

Polygamy in Indonesia is rampant talk about, because in Indonesia, polygamy became pros and cons in society. This is because polygamy has many negative effects especially for the wife, even though there is positive impact as well. As for the impact, among others, many wives feel abandoned by the material, do not get attention from her husband, stress, sadness, depression, and disappointment mingled into one. Therefore, for the wife who survive in conditions that her husband's polygamous household must have resilience so as not to decline into the situation. Therefore, this study aims to identify factors - factors behind the husband's polygamy, the effort to get resilience, and the description on the wife's resilience. This research is a qualitative descriptive study. The subjects in this study amounted to 6 people, drawn by snow ball sampling method. Data collection techniques used were unstructured interviews. While the validity of the method of data used in this study is the triangulation method. The result showed that the impact of polygamy on the wife is the wife is feeling sad, crying, jealous of honey, annoyed, and often uncontrollable emotions, strees through life, inferior to the environment, hurt, has no motivation in life, and weight menjalini life even feels like to feel bitter pill to swallow in his life. The effort - an effort to achieve resilience is to pray to God, self motivated, positive activities, share stories, empaty on honey, sure every difficulty there must be a way out, positive thinking, refreshing, working, reading a book about polygamy. When subjects know the husband's polygamy shock, upset, confused, and angry even feel inferior with their environment and they also had asked for a divorce to the husband. However, their husbands refused, so they try to survive with such a situation, by approaching to God such as prayer, self-motivated, following the social activities, trying to think positive with the problem, do the refreshing, share stories, empaty in honey, as well as read books on polygamy. From this they gain peace of mind because they feel themselves closer to God and they can rise up and adapt back from perkawinanya problem.

Item Type: Thesis (Other)
Subjects: B Philosophy. Psychology. Religion > BF Psychology
Divisions: Faculty of Psychology > Department of Psychology
Depositing User: Zainul Afandi
Date Deposited: 26 Jun 2012 05:52
Last Modified: 26 Jun 2012 05:52
URI: http://eprints.umm.ac.id/id/eprint/9594

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