HAYATI, AINUL (2009) PERNIKAHAN BEDA USIA JAUH (BUJ)(Studi tentang Latar Belakang, Permasalahan pernikahan, dan Coping Suami Lebih Muda dari Istri). Other thesis, University of Muhammadiyah Malang.
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The marriage was one historic incident in susceptible the life of humankind, where a marriage has naturally been expected to take place through to for life. In chose who what will become the colleague of his life, anyone certainly had special consideration that in a manner indirectly influenced the behavior chose his couple. Concerning this matter, the age became one of the important factors that must be paid attention to by them who wanted to marry, not only in the age how many they were allowed to marry, but also in the age comparison between the man and the woman. Although not the only factor that must be filled, but the age of the older husband was believed will bring the marriage to the side of that was better., remembered the husband appropriately has become the leader in the household and the family. But in fact, the marriage when the man was younger than the wife more often was encountered. The difference of the age around them then increasingly different, began 1-2 years, to more than 15 years. This phenomenon certainly caused many question marks, and became the matter that only did not pull to be discussed, but also important to be studied in one scientific research. So, the aim of this research was to know any factors that formed the background of a man be interested and married the far more older woman, the problem of any marriage that was dealt with by them, and how coping the husband on this problem. This research was the qualitative research. The method of the data collection that was used was the interview. As for the subject of the research that was used was 2 men who underwent the marriage of the far age differences where the husband was younger than the wife. In this case, a legality of the data was tested by using the technique of source Triangulation. Result of the research of showing that the factor that formed the background of a man be interested and married the woman were far more older above was because of the character of the not more well thought out identity, the identification figure certain to himself the couple who was hoped for. The existence of the conviction that the younger woman could not be relied on in the household, as well as the presence of the couple as the noose that satisfied the requirements was had and loved (Belonging and Love) that could be stoped. As for the problem of the marriage as resulting from the difference of the age that to far in this marriage, more was caused by the difference of maturity of the identity, the physiological condition gap, and the difference of interest of the development between the husband and the couple. The three matters, afterwards in manner indirectly caused the special problem in their marriage. Faced this matter, this far more younger husband afterward tended to dodge, ignored, and showed passive aggressive act.
|Item Type:||Thesis (Other)|
|Subjects:||B Philosophy. Psychology. Religion > BF Psychology|
|Divisions:||Faculty of Psychology > Department of Psychology|
|Depositing User:||Anwar Jasin|
|Date Deposited:||26 Apr 2012 03:59|
|Last Modified:||26 Apr 2012 03:59|
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