FAKTOR-FAKTOR YANG MELATAR BELAKNGI LAKI-LAKI MENERIMA DAN BERTAHAN DENGAN KEKERASAN DALAM PACARAN

WARDIYAH, MALAHATUL (2009) FAKTOR-FAKTOR YANG MELATAR BELAKNGI LAKI-LAKI MENERIMA DAN BERTAHAN DENGAN KEKERASAN DALAM PACARAN. Other thesis, University of Muhammadiyah Malang.

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Abstract

In the history of human life, man has always noticed as the violence maker, even in their interpersonal relationship with their opponent sex, woman, from household interpersonal relationship, friendship, until dating. But now, the situation seems to be changed when man found as the victim of violence, exactly in dating. Dating is not a kind of relationship which needs responsibilities to fill the domestic needs each other, because dating is a site to approach and to learn more about personality of the prospective wife, besides, it is also a site to have a fun. So, it seems to be so ironic when it is filled violence, moreover, man, whom usually identified as the strong, aggressive, coarse, and competitive one, becoming victim of it, just could accept and hold out in that relationship. Actually, man refuse, revenge, in fact even break off their girlfriend, but those all were not done. The purpose of this research is exploring the causing factors of man accepting and holding out in dating violence. This Research is including a descriptive qualitative research. The using method is interview to collect the research data. The subjects are three men who are student of universities, have been more than a year in dating relationship, but identified as the victim of dating violence. The Validity of data is checked by using triangulation of sources, those are the girlfriends and also the close friends. From the result of this research known that the causing factors of man accepting and holding out in dating violence are; (1) The Attraction factors, especially which connected with reward, such as feeling love, having no other woman as alternatives, hoping to own children as good as the girlfriend (is like beautiful, smart, and honored), having too much investments, wanting to be noticed as a good man (looking extravagant), until hoping to be avoided by something bad which could be happened, (2) The strong commitment in dating, that is marrying the girlfriend, (3) The character of relationship in the family which was not ideal when they were kids, such as getting violence from parents, getting over protected, never been considered, even never been heard their opinions and wants

Item Type: Thesis (Other)
Subjects: H Social Sciences > H Social Sciences (General)
Divisions: Faculty of Psychology > Department of Psychology
Depositing User: Anggit Aldila
Date Deposited: 07 Jul 2012 01:57
Last Modified: 07 Jul 2012 01:57
URI: http://eprints.umm.ac.id/id/eprint/11331

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